Most photographers start by focusing on technical skills and aesthetics, but there's another critical factor that often goes unnoticed. Recognizing this overlooked element can significantly change the quality and meaning of your photos.
Coming to you from Alex Kilbee with The Photographic Eye, this thoughtful video introduces what Kilbee describes as the "third pillar" of photography—connection. He initially learned the technical aspects like shutter speed and aperture and understood the visual components like composition and balance, but still felt something essential was missing. Looking at famous photographers such as Dorothea Lange or Walker Evans, Kilbee realized their compelling images often defied traditional rules of composition or technical perfection. Yet, their photographs resonated deeply. The reason was their personal connection to the subjects, which translated directly into their work. Kilbee explains this isn't just about physical closeness; it's an emotional attachment that makes your photos feel authentic.
Kilbee emphasizes that connection is most effectively felt when you're genuinely immersed in your surroundings. He recalls discussions with photographer Nick Carver, noting how both prefer solitude when shooting. This solitude isn't about isolating yourself but about avoiding distractions. Being alone helps you fully engage with the small details around you—textures, colors, shapes, and subtle shifts of light—that form the building blocks of powerful images. It's this state of heightened awareness that helps you capture photographs with emotional depth. When you're fully present, you don't just document scenes; you respond to them intuitively, leading to stronger, more meaningful pictures.
There's another dimension of connection Kilbee highlights, which involves interaction and sharing with fellow creatives. He contrasts his positive experiences at photography school, where students openly shared ideas, with later experiences where some professionals guarded their methods protectively. This secrecy puzzled him because photography benefits from collaboration and mutual inspiration. Kilbee notes the example of influential photographers like Joel Meyerowitz and Tony Ray-Jones, who openly exchanged ideas, creating richer work through community engagement. He argues that this spirit of openness is increasingly rare today, especially online, where unique style and personal branding can foster isolation rather than creative dialogue.
Beyond technical mastery or aesthetic skill, embracing connection—in both solitary observation and communal interaction—can profoundly enhance your photography. Kilbee illustrates that genuine engagement with your subject and openness to learning from peers add a crucial dimension to your work, making it more compelling and personally rewarding. He suggests that finding communities, whether online groups or informal gatherings, helps build this kind of meaningful exchange. Check out the video above for the full rundown from Kilbee.
