Photographing Those Who Don't Want To Be Photographed

Photographing Those Who Don't Want To Be Photographed

A few months ago, I took an overnight bus from Pokhara, Nepal, to Kathmandu. Arriving at five in the morning was not a part of the plan; nor was losing a night’s worth of sleep to dangerous curves, heavy rainfall, imminent landslides, and music that blared until shortly before arrival in the city. When I got there, I wasn't in too pleasant of a mood.

While waiting for a shop to open, my fiancée and I were sitting on the doorstep by the street. After almost a month of travel, we were weary, though satiated, and just wanted a hot shower. The streets were quiet, as most are at that time of day, but my ears perked to the sound of English being spoken without a Nepali accent. Down the road jaunts a large, bearded foreigner with two cameras dangling from his shoulders — two pro bodies, one with a 70-200mm f/2.8, the other with an ultrawide. It appeared as if he was leading a woman around in some sort of photo workshop situation, showing her what to shoot and how to shoot it, and my fiancee and I were immediately struck by how. . . unapologetic he seemed. He wasn’t being a fly on the wall. He wasn’t observing life in Nepal to learn about it or preserve it or respect it while documenting it at the same time. He was getting right in people’s faces with his long lens and standing out like a big, sore thumb, doing whatever he needed to “get the shot” as if he were about to win a Pulitzer.

But the worst part was when it was obvious that the people he was photographing didn’t want their photo taken, and he didn’t seem to care.

Maybe it’s the introvert in me, I don’t know, but my personal feeling towards photography is that if I’m taking photos of people and they don’t notice me, most things are fair game — especially if I’m in a public place. But if they do notice me and make it apparent that they don’t want their photo taken, I try my best to exit the situation with humility, respect, and grace. I lower the camera, offer some sort of apology, whether it’s mouthing the word from afar, bowing my head, or whatever seems most culturally appropriate. So when I saw an article by Simon Sharp about photographing vulnerable people who obviously don’t want to be photographed, it really struck a chord.

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Sharp came across some photos taken by Turkish photojournalist Bulent Kilic and wasn’t too happy about what they represented. Kilic is fairly well-known in the photojournalism world. He was named Best Wire Photographer of 2014 by TIME, shoots for the AFP, a French-based news agency that is the third largest in the world behind the Associated Press and Reuters, and his images are really good. He’s obviously put himself in dangerous situations, frequenting war zones in Syria, Iraq, Ukraine, and his home country of Turkey. I can’t even imagine the kind of courage that takes, the kind of life it brings, and how hard it is to have a family while doing it.

But even though many of Kilic’s images are documentary in nature and of subjects that most photographers would take, I would have to agree with Sharp’s criticism of these particular images that he shared. 

Take a look at the image above. Men are hungry, looking up at a man who appears to be in the military, searching for answers. That tells a story. It invokes compassion for the subjects. 

Now, take a look at this one. 

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Notice a difference?

The caption describes it as a Syrian woman walking with her baby. But that caption, as Sharp points out, is a bit disingenuous. 

It’s a refugee camp and thus, by definition, this lady and her child are vulnerable people fleeing a war zone and trapped in no man’s land. Is there not more at work here than simply ‘a woman and her baby on Thursday?' Does the raised hand blocking the line of sight to the face, which is turned to the side while the child is held, along with the soap, as far from the intrusion as possible indicate an encounter? Is she waving goodbye after a chat? Doubtful, the physiognomy is too strong and defensive, the elbow raised high and out to thrust out the hand to create a safe space while the hand itself is flat, flaying like a cockerel its widest protective form as if to block something.

This is an encounter in which a woman is in the simplest possible way indicating with what power she has left the message ‘please do not photograph me.’ Therefore, meaning-wise this image equals nothing as even without an identity or name to attach to it the subject or context of a strong photograph in its essence communicates the soul and voice of that subject. Unfortunately those human traits are impossible to communicate if the subject in the image is unwilling as above and is thus objectified into a soulless commodity along with her child.

That’s something I’d have to agree with.

If Kilic were in a refugee camp taking photos, and there were some people who didn’t seem to mind (or even came up and asked him to take photos of them, possibly), then that’s fine. But when someone obviously does not want their photo taken, why wouldn’t you back down and show them some respect? Some humanity? Some humility? If these people are scared and displaced and worn, and they don’t want to be in your photo, why would you deny them that? To me, as to Sharp, this photo is nothing more than a photographer getting in a woman's face to take a photo and her trying to make him go away. 

I don’t get it.

Am I missing something? Should we, as photographers, as storytellers, as historians, always do whatever it takes to “get the shot?” Or should we remember that our subjects are human as well and pick our battles accordingly? 

The other shot that Sharp comments on is this one of a small child hiding behind her hand while trying to eat a piece of bread.

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Yes, it's sad. So is the previous image. It's an image of the what happens when the worst of humanity is left unchecked. It's an image of something you'd never wish on yourself or anyone you love. But the subject, again, appears to not want to be a part of the story, does not want to be brought in the news cycle, isn't interested in being documented at that moment, and is telling the photographer just that. 

Two points here: First, this child does NOT want her photograph taken, she has NOT given her CONSENT. She’s not playing a child’s game of peek-a-boo like children do. She’s hiding behind her hand, using it to defend herself and sneaking a peek through her right eye to see if the intruder into her space has gone away. Her ‘meal’ of bread remains in the hand because she’s hungry and does not want to soil it which might be the reason her facial features speak not of joy but are sterile, her mouth is drawn down, there is no smile present, only sadness remains behind her last defense, the left hand barely large enough to be guarding what’s left of her dignity after God knows what forced her to this place.

An NGO, Care International, apparently ran this image on their Facebook page, with the tagline "So much horror for such young eyes, but she is one of many refugee children who need help."

Here's Sharp's take on that:

Did somebody from Care International actually look at this shot? Did they see it? I propose not as these kinds of visualisations in no way humanise the suffering within them as the sole purpose is to create an aesthetic out of a situation in which the ‘models’ clearly wanted no part in being scrutinised. Read raised hands attempting to protect the face from view, analogous to reaching out in front of you to break a fall. A basic survival instinct and ironically the metaphorical fall these people are defending themselves against is their supposed saviour, the affluent spectators and would be NGO donors viewing the image. These subjects don’t even want to be looked at and so for them to be used in promotional material is the ultimate irony.

I'll give the person at Care that ran the image the benefit of the doubt that they were just trying to fulfill their mission, trying to help the world, and thinking of the children in these situations with love and compassion. But Sharp's critique is an honest one, and he's not wrong. 

One would think that there would be plenty of other images than these that a news agency or an NGO could run to get their story heard and get the point across. Why these were published, let alone why they made it from Kilic's computer to the rest of the world, is something I don't understand -- especially the image of the woman. You could make the argument that the girl was wiping her eyes or something like that, but in the image of the woman, it is pretty obvious that she does not approve of being photographed. 

Simon's conclusion sums it up:

With that said I don’t blame the photographer for taking these pictures. I blame the industry for publishing them and, moreover, for creating the space, creating the very market for them which in turn feeds into the (any) photographer’s head that this is the stuff they want, what we the audience want and above all what humanity both wants and needs.

This industry is a business and it appears at times a business that pressures field operatives to produce the most sensational, aesthetically pleasing and saleable images they can no matter the human cost to those within the images, to the photographer who took them or, indeed, the ethical cost to the industry itself.

It's hard to know what I would do without being there, in those situations, in those moments, but I can tell you that I think I would have, at the least, felt an intense sense of guilt after taking those images, and probably wouldn't have put them out to the world. Maybe being a photojournalist is different than other types of photographers in that regard. Maybe Kilic felt like he was still telling the story, even though just his presence there obviously impacted what was happening around him, potentially rendering the situation unauthentic. Photographers do weird things when they're trying to get images. But afterward, in the editing room, one would hope that compassion for your subject would influence your decision on what to send out to be viewed by the masses.

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Gabrielle Colton's picture

Love this

Robert Nurse's picture

I'd have a hard time doing this kind of photography: i.e., being forcibly intrusive. I always ask before photographing strangers unless the venue is such that you'd expect to be photographed: weddings, parties, etc. The situations above, however insensitive, are of a different nature in my opinion. They seem to be of a journalistic nature. I don't know, I couldn't and wouldn't photograph someone who didn't want to be. But, isn't that the job of a photojournalist? Just my $0.02.

Deleted Account's picture

You have empathy. Some people don't understand the golden rule. Maybe if someone needs the shot they could learn more about the techniques of street photographers who are so great at capturing moments that are more candid.

Stephen Ironside's picture

To the point of them being photojournalistic -- I'd disagree, because obviously the photographer himself influenced the situation by being there. He wasn't observing and documenting, which is the point of photojournalism. He was altering the situation, and then documenting. Doesn't seem appropriate to me. But I only took one photojournalism I'm not an expert, I guess.

Martin Melnick's picture

This is fantastic. I had an encounter in Greece with a vendor who after taking his photo, yelled at me in anger, and I realized that I had exploited his space. I apologized, and out of my ethics have decided to never post or share that photograph. It's a hard line to draw, but in journalistic photography, if the goal is to reveal some sort of truth about humanity and the exploitation of the world, the last thing a documenting photographer should do is contribute to it.

Deleted Account's picture

Great article! I wish Stoppers had more like this and less click bait.

Anonymous's picture

I have an image with a similar situation. Two ladies where walking and strolling with six children as I was taking shots in a public park in Boston. She held her hand up to me, so I stopped shooting and lowered my camera until they passed. The two were probably Nannies and were doing their job and protecting the children in their charge.

I still have and love the couple of shots I managed to get before halting my work but, NO one but me has ever seen them.

Anonymous's picture

In the first image, it's pretty obvious she doesn't want her photo taken. I'm not so sure about the child. I very rarely take someone's photo without, at least, implied permission.

Stephen Ironside's picture

I'm also less sure about the child one, because as I mentioned, she could have just been wiping her eyes or something. But the first one, definitely.

J Cortes's picture

Interesting article that delves into important issues . I think it's poor taste to take a photo of someone who does not want to be photographed .

Michal Rozumkiewicz's picture

I'm sure President Nixon had similar objections with "the Napalm girl" photo.

David Mawson's picture

And if Nixon had been the Napalm Girl, that would be an intelligent comment. But he wasn't, so it's the opposite.

Tim R's picture

I don't want my photo taken because...

I don't trust you and I don't know where my photo will end up
You'll take it home and contribute to your creepy collection
I'm afraid it will be posted in a local publication and I will look like an idiot, and my life will be worse
I'm afraid it will go viral around the world and people will laugh at me, and my life will be destroyed
If my photo becomes popular and makes you a lot of money, I won't get any, and that's not fair
All my friends will see me looking like the stupid head I am and unfriend me
I have low self esteem and the act of photo taking makes me cringe from embarrassment
I've had cameraphobia since I was a youngster

I totally understand personal space, privacy, respect, empathy. I just sometimes wonder what people think will happen when their photo is taken. Most times nothing happens. In contrast, no one cares about big brother recording everything on a much more personal level.

Elan Govan's picture

Why then print it..........again.

Stephen Venneman's picture

As an example of what *not* to do. We see two images where the subject is indicating, "please no photos," yet the photographer still pressed the button. If someone does this, don't do that.
Admittedly, it might've been better to recreate the photos...

Elan Govan's picture

Yes, I was aware of that. Encounter is kind of gestures and many more during street photography.

Jonathan Brady's picture

Quite simply, people like this lack TRUE compassion. They'd probably argue that they have more compassion than most which is why they're doing what they do. But it's obvious that they have NO compassion for the individual.
Irony would be subjecting people like this to some sort of Truman Show life until they broke down and FINALLY "got it".

Samad Khan's picture

Thanks for this article. As a photographer working for UNHCR in Pakistan, I encounter this every day. UNHCR has code of ethics for photographing vulnerable people to which all staff in the field must adhere to. We do require express permission for photos of individual refugees and we also at times explain the purpose of the photos. For example I was photographing a refugee family and a young man of the family agreed to be photographed but explicitly told me not to post the photo on Facebook. I had to explain that the photo will only go in an internal UNHCR report. Similarly, we have to guide photo-journalists to take extra care while photographing women in a culturally sensitive environment. Unfortunately photo journalists in Pakistan have no ethical training and would simply do anything to get the shot. If someone disagrees to have their photo taken, no matter how good the story is, I always back out. Its the right thing to do in my opinion.

David Mawson's picture

That's a great contribution to an excellent article.

John Larsen's picture

Very good and sensitive article. BUT, the subjects obviously do not want these photos publisized, and that is what you do! I dare assume that you did not ask for their permission.
With what right did you do this?

Simon Patterson's picture

I agree with you. I agree wholeheartedly with the text of the article but not with the hypocrisy of the inclusion of the photos. It was not necessary to include the photos to make the very important point about respecting vulnerable people's wishes when choosing what to publish.

Stephen Ironside's picture

I wondered about this as well -- but, then again, they're all over the internet because they're on Getty, available publicly, and it's kind of difficult to talk about the ethics of photography without using specific examples. And maybe the people in the photos would be ok with them being used to talk about why it's not nice to take photos of people who don't want their photos taken? I don't know.

It's all a gray area. That's why we should talk about it.

Simon Patterson's picture

The fact they're all over the internet means you don't need to republish them for us to know exactly what you're referring to. Now that you did republish them, you're just another perpetrator of the exploitation of these people.

The fact you know these people didn't want their photos taken in the first place, and you admit you don't know if they'd be happy for you to publish them, should be all the clues you need to choose not to further exploit them by yet again publishing the photos.

Simon Patterson's picture

Don't publish *this* picture. Nor *this* one. Or *this*. Hmmm...since when has "do as I say not do as I do" ever convinced anyone?

Biju Toha's picture

Love your story.

Derek Barrett's picture

The other dimension to consider when taking photos of people is that several religions consider that taking a photo of a person is somehow taking a part of their personality.

I will always try to get permission to take a photo of someone, either by asking or pointing at the camera and smiling first. If they give a negative response then I walk away. In some countries, they will hold out their hand for cash to sweeten the deal and then co-operate with you.

Geoffrey Forrest's picture

I am so glad that most of the people who agree with this article are not people who shoot or have never shot in a war zone and never published photos of people in a "Newsworthy" situation, or been paid for their work. That is why we see so many photos of landscapes/animal/sunsets and stars...

Anonymous's picture

Here is perhaps an opposing thought.....if you always try to get permission, would we not lose the impact of the spontaneous image? If you are a photojournalist, it is your job to observe and document as events occur. If we all start waiting for the "model release", then all shots will become staged.

Just a thought....Craig

Let the blasting begin. :-)

Robert Nurse's picture

The weasel answer is, it depends. If you can get that spontaneous shot of someone, take it. Then, share it with them. If they protest, then, delete. If they like it, you're gold.

Stephen Ironside's picture

I agree that it's easier to ask forgiveness than permission sometimes. Yes, his job as a photojournalist was to observe and document. In the first image especially, it's obvious that he wasn't just observing. His presence there altered the situation, rendering it unauthentic, and therefor the capture doesn't accurately portrait what would have been happening if he weren't there. If he had taken photos of her and she hadn't noticed he was there and acted naturally, then it would be different. His images would have shown what was occurring in the refugee camp, and nothing more, which should have been the goal. I'm not advocating waiting for a model release for photojournalistic images; if we did that, we'd have basically no images of what's going on in the world, because most people in hard situations don't like being photographed. But when they make it clear that they don't, shouldn't we respect that?

Of course, we have to use our judgement on WHY they don't want to be photographed as well. If you catch someone breaking the law and take a photo, obviously they won't want their photo taken. That's different than someone in the middle of a difficult life situation who doesn't want to be publicized.

Deleted Account's picture

To take a photo of a vulnerable child unwilling to have their picture taken isn't observing & documenting... it's being an asshat. Subtle difference.

Geoffrey Forrest's picture

Please read my mail. It is always easy to comment from your couch.

Maggie Mabon's picture

But is it really okay for a complete stranger to approach a vulnerable child on their own?

Deleted Account's picture

My answer. Absolutely not.

Deleted Account's picture

Yes, so I see... how easy it is for you to comment from your couch, Geoffrey. Pfffttt.

Stephen Venneman's picture

What you're describing could be resolved with a phrase thoroughly unpopular around the world: Shoot first, ask questions later. Get the photo, and if the person is available show the photo & get their permission to use it. That was always my policy when I was shooting news and someone clearly indicated they were uncomfortable. So often, they are unsure what you're doing or why. If you take the moment or two to explain and share, not only can you get the goodwill and permission but they may point out another compelling story.

Allen Freeman's picture

I have to agree with this article. I’m thinking, if I was the photographer looking to send my shots I would not have sent these. I’m thinking are they in a hurry and just send all their shots in? And if so, who’s on the receiving end and picking these shots to use? It’s the person using the shots that’s more to blame than the photographer in the end. (If they don’t have time to edit them and choose what is sent to the editor.). Because when you go to shoot someone you don’t know if they will last second cover their face or not. When I encounter someone covering their face my first thought is why? I’m not shooting in 3rd world countries. They are shy, they are where they shouldn’t be? One last note: Just an observation but 90% of the time for me it is people of Asian cultures that cover their face and ask me not to post it on social media. (Again, I’m shooting mostly in the US) A recent trip to Bucharest and no one asked to not be shot, no one covered their face.

Geoffrey Forrest's picture

You don't really have to comment. I think most people in Asia, don't want to be photographed, because of a superstition or their religion... The camera could steal their soul. Please read my post.

Deleted Account's picture

It seems the papperazzi exist even in war zones. I'm not a people photographer... I prefer landscapes and animals. Yet even here... I will never chase down an animal. I won't pause to take a photo of a stunned bird first. I help the poor creature, if possible. The minute the shoot is about me and not my subject, I feel I have failed in creating an image that will truly resonate.

Geoffrey Forrest's picture

You said it, but it is a WAR ZONE, they are, by definition, not the paparazzi, but photojournalists and that is their job, like it or not.

You should really look into why are are not a people photographer.
I am so glad you don't chase down an animal, but if you have every seen an animal run away, then you have frightened it...

Your answer is only about yourself not the situation in this case.

Deleted Account's picture

"You should..." comments are not of use to me.

Of course my comment comes from my personal experiences... in war zones, as a matter of fact... that it seems suggested here I am trying to be part of the "situation" is curious. If not... offputting to what I thought was an openly invited discussion on the topic of war zone photography ethics.

Geoffrey Forrest's picture

I don't fully disagree with this article, BUT:

With all of the lead-in details and the fact that the "In their face", photographer.
First: It was all taken in the street/public, so according to your own opinion it is OK.
The way some people/idiots shoot is offensive, but again that is how they get what they want/need, right or wrong, if you don't tell them or shoot them doing it or just stand there and do nothing then you are a part of the problem, Or? It is not called, "Taking" a photo for nothing. Most photographers would admit they are a bit like thieves who have to satisfy a need. I have actually discussed this with a few friends and they all agreed or just laughed, in agreement.

What? Also, what bothered me the most was your comment about yourself, how you withdraw with, "humility, respect and grace", Wow, you are so sensitive, but not sensitive enough to leave out the names of the photographers you don't agree with.

Do you want them to be punished?

Small Point: Why tell us the names or the top news agencies? To show how much you know? I think it is because you are a photographer who has never worked in a war zone and sent work to an agency and never published an article in a "Real" magazine, where an editor sees the work first.

This is my main problem with most bloggers, they are closer to amateurs than professionals. The fact that, in this Internet generation people can write about whatever they disagree with, with I"I wouldn't do it that way or I wouldn't do this... That's very nice. There are people in this world who kill because of this mentality: They are not like us.
He looked at me the wrong way and what could I do. I had no choice...

Next: The basic rules are: If something is "Newsworthy", In a public space or street,
with a group of people, Also, it depends on how it is used by the photographer/publisher. Meaning: if the person/persons are represented in a way that is wrong or makes
claims that are not true. Of course they have to see it and get a lawyer or write to the pub and ask to be paid for the photo. If you are not in the same country as the publication, forget about it. In most cases the subject would get up to $50, from any reputable publication. They see it as, it is better to pay and avoid any possible
problems in the future.

I could tell by the long intro and how every, unnecessary, detail is used to make your case... Why didn't you ask them, at the time, why they shoot the way they do.

Try this: A war zone or anything/place that is being reported on the news channels/ newspapers/magazines, makes everyone fair game. Like it or not.

It is true that they are under pressure of the situation and the need to publish and get paid and, maybe, win a prize.

Maybe you should consider that most photographers are not that intelligent and a
few I know cannot read or write very well. That is why they need use a camera
to express themselves and/or earn a living.

It is the easiest thing to do... To see the faults of others. Why don't you/people write articles like: "The Biggest Mistakes I Made in the Past 10 Years". Or "The Three Worst
Things I did in My Life, So far". Why not?

The wonders of the "Human Defense System", makes us all "Innocent", until we are caught/seen by others.

Do you think anyone would publish this in a "Real" Publication". You don't get paid
to write this article. Any photo site would publish it, because you are working for free.

What if I wrote an article about "Blog Slaves", who are so desperate for attention and
to show how sensitive they are. Although you have every right to do so. And, they have every right to use your talents to make money from Amazon and other companies
who profit from all of this. You get to look like an expert and a professional in the field, without the real credentials.

Try it. Send this article to any 4-6 publications in your country/city and see what happens. Why not ask this site to pay you, $50 per article or?

As a matter of fact, I have just started to copy my comments on a text program and
see what I will do with it, on my site. Will I use your name and the name of the site?


Stephen Ironside's picture

Geoffrey, there's a lot here, and I'm not going to respond to everything because that would take too long and not really be worth it, but:

I didn't say it was OK to take photos of people who don't want be photographed if it's from the street. I said "...if I’m taking photos of people and they don’t notice me, most things are fair game — especially if I’m in a public place. But if they do notice me and make it apparent that they don’t want their photo taken, I try my best to exit the situation..." Obviously, this woman does not want to be photographed. There's a difference in street photography, or photojournalism, and being an asshat to other humans.

I didn't leave out the name of the photographer because it was pointless. It says it in the Getty embedded image.

I'm fine with taking photos in war zones. That's important, and I never knocked it. We need those images to see what people are doing to each other across the world. But when the photographer alters the situation s/he's shooting, it's no longer news. It's no longer observing and documenting. It's altering. That makes the image, in my opinion, worthless. The point is that the photographer, or the agency, or the NGO who pushed the photo should've noticed that. When the subject alters their behavior because you are there, it's no longer an authentic journalistic image.

Also, I do get paid to write for this site, as we all do, though really I just do this because it's interesting, and I make my living doing photography, so personal attacks are pretty fruitless.

Also, you have zero images on your account, and all of your comments are negative, so you're right -- it's easy to comment from your couch.

Deleted Account's picture

Thank you for this reply, Stephen. I have just come back from exploring the presence of said Geoffrey... trying to understand the unprompted, defensive comments. I scrolled further... pondering how to make sense of the fellow. Came upon your reply.

I'm a 53 yr old Air Force disabled veteran with severe PTSD. Photography is what "gets me off my couch." I refuse to allow a faceless, anonymous, photo-less jerk to hijack my experiences.

Nathaniel Johnston's picture

Thanks Stephen for writing this! It's a really insightful read, and it sums up nicely what I've always felt as a photographer. Unless you're paparazzi, it's a delicate dance we play with our subjects that is always fresh and new with each new subject and situation.

Thankfully for me, 99% of my subjects reach out to me specifically to ask to pay me to photograph them, but I have the utmost respect for photojournalists who manage to marry artistry with documenting events in a way that tells an honest story.

Deleted Account's picture

I really like the imagery of "marrying artistry with documenting events in a way that tells an honest story." So well stated. :)